Empowering Girls to Step Into Womanhood
Fire and Flower’s process is the cumulative result of founder Elisa Lee’s graduate research on modern and historic rites of passage theory – combined with her years of experience as a wilderness guide. Fire and Flower offers a variety of program experiences, all of which are unified by the three pillars: Mentorship, Community and Nature Connection.
Girls participating in our weekly, Spring Break, and summer programs experience what it looks and feels like to be part of a community of sisterhood. They will start navigating hard-to-talk-about topics like body image, media literacy, menstruation and sexuality in a fun, honest and safe environment.
Every second year, we offer a comprehensive six-month rite of passage program, where participants are well-supported through their process into young womanhood. In this comprehensive experience, we dive deeper into the topics above, provide in-depth, personalized mentorship and embark on a 5-day adventure that includes a transformative coming-of-age ceremony.
Most importantly, participants continue to be supported after they return home from their trip, so that their growth and radiance is integrated into their daily lives.
In addition, Fire and Flower creates custom programs for schools and organization, and can travel to communities to deliver our stellar empowerment camps.
Reading more about our guiding principles – the three pillars – below.
1. Mentorship
- Mentorship allows girls to feel really seen and to know they really matter. Spending 1-on-1 time with a mentor, they are supported in their personal curiosities and challenges while having a safe window into the adult world.
- As mentors, knowing the girls well allows us to continually tailor activities to what they need and create experiences where their unique strengths are discovered and validated. Mentors act as a bridge for girls to enter womanhood and the larger world on solid ground, clear of their worth and incredible potential.
2. Community
- Community is vital to ensure girls know that what they are going through is normal, that they belong and that womanhood is vastly diverse. Mentorship on its own can be isolating so we balance it with girls and women coming together in group settings.
- Together we normalize ‘awkward’ discussions on menstruation or crushes. We create a culture of acceptance where diversity - of shapes, sizes, ethnicities, passions and personalities - is deeply celebrated.
- Where mentorship recognizes uniqueness, community fosters unity.
3. Nature Connection
- Nature is empowering and with good guidance, girls feel amazing outdoors.
- Nature provides the challenge they need to trust and appreciate themselves, and especially their bodies. In a setting that is free of judgement (away from media and devices) and full of beauty and diversity, girls’ nervous systems calm down and they feel grounded and safe to express their inner nature. They also experience the humbling effect of belonging to the circle of life.
- Outer natural beauty encourages our inner natural beauty to shine, and it is usually in nature that the most transformative mentoring and community bonding occurs. Girls find a deep joy and freedom in being themselves. Nature connection is introduced through games, crafts, hiking and reflective exercises.